Hello from Australia / Bianca Gooley I have come across your beautiful site. Something I should have done more than 2 years ago. Although my angel died inside me, it is still a life. Your baby boy is beautiful. 'Is' because he will always be your baby boy. I have a gorgeous daughter now. I am thankful. I have put everyhting I've gone through (losing my baby on the same day as my father in law's funeral) into a positive. I have created a business to help preserve the memory of our loved ones. 'Lily - celebratig life'. Here in Australia there is a need for people to help others when planning funerals, celebrations of people's lives and also what happens afterwards. I help create funerals that are personalised and unique to that person. From mass booklets to Memory Albums, I want to help others through this time. I also want to let Bailey's father know that there is no wrong or right way to grieve. Men and women are different. You can talk or think of your son whenever you wish. You don't need to type or write it down all the time. I do because that's the way I've dealt with things but my husband doesn't. He may come out with something about our baby totally out of the blue. The bottom line is we all care. We just express it differently. You both seem like lovely parents. Your Mollie is beautiful and if I have another girl I've always wanted her to be called Molly! Thank you for sharing your story.
to good for earth (poem) / Louise (Mummy2Sam) Brown (just met your mum on a baby site )
A Child Loaned
''I'll lend you for a little time A child of mine.'' He said. ''For you to love the while he lives, And mourn for when he's dead. It may be six or seven years Or twenty-two or three. But will you till i call him back. Take care of him for me? He'll bring his charms to gladden you And should his stay be brief. You'll have his lovely memories As solace for your grief.
My heart goes out to you. / Katrina Baker (None) I can not understand how you feel but i can send you all my love for a truely special family. xxxxxxxx
Angels/ Pat Austin (nanny) Angels do not die, they do not lose their loved ones, young and old, to another place. But they hold onto the loved ones we have lost until we can get there to hold them again.
God bless Bailey, you are in my thoughts and heart for ever,
This has made me cry... / Sarah-jane Collins (Traceys friend )
...He was a lovely little boy and Im sure Mummy, Daddy and especially Mollie will keep him alive every day in their hearts.
Rest In Peace Bailey, maybe our 3 are keeping you company, that would be nice xxxxxx Close
Sorry i havent been on to say hello lately and i hope you dont think i have forgotten about you as this would be impossible. I could never forget you as you managed to find a space in my heart which is where you will remain untill the day we finally get to meet.
Was doing the washing up on Christmas day, I looked up into the sky and thought why arn't you here with us, it isn't fair. Even tho we have you through you superstar of a sister, I'm sure you are looking over her. I miss you, we all do.
Miss you. / Tracy Austin (mummy)
Hi mummy's boy. Just to let you know that we are going to the crematorium on Friday to send you even more balloons (bet your sick of balloons)
It will be two whole years my baby since we said goodbye to you in the chapel-(crematorium) I remember shouting i cant leave my baby here by himself.....I remember Joshy in tears and Nathan trying to be strong.I know that the place was jam packed,see everyone loves you.I remember the vicar crying as she carried you in in your tiny beautiful white casket. Somebody was crying hysterically when the music played-puff daddy,eric clapton and aero smith. Ive never really put these feeling down before,strange that today i can remember things.The beautiful flowers,tons and tons of them.We pressed some gorgeous blue flowers and have them in your memory box.
I also remember that day that Mollie pulled out her ventilator around the time of your cremation,i think she knew,they say that twins feel and sense things?
I think i shut these feelings out Bailey,not trying to forget or anything,but just not making myself remember it.
Mollie is doing well,im buying her a book called always my twin.We will read it to her when shes abit bigger coz shes gonna know all about her big brave twin. I love you baby boy.Lots of huggles and snuggles,love mummy.xxxx Close
Two Years since you became an angel. / Chris Austin (Daddy)Read >>
Two Years since you became an angel. / Chris Austin (Daddy)
I'm sorry son, that I don't put my thought's and feelings into words as often as I should. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you. I try to imagine what you would be like now, walking, talking, laughing, smiling. But that will never be, but you will always be in my heart now and forever.
Miss you soooo much Bailey / Auntie Lisa
Hello Little man, I cant believe that its your 2 year anniversary already. You are sadly missed but live on in your gorgeous twin sister Mollie. I find myself asking Would you of looked like her? Who would you look like, mummy or daddy? Maybe even Josh or Nath? What colour hair would you have? I could go on but i know that they are questions that will remained unanswered. Thinking of you more today than any other day and missing you lots. Sending you lots of angel hugs and kisses Sleep tight love Auntie Lisa xxxxxxxx Close
If tears could make a staircase and heartches make a lane / Lisa Richard Alex And Tia Read >>
If tears could make a staircase and heartches make a lane / Lisa Richard Alex And Tia
"Bailey, If tears could make a staircase And heartaches make a lane, We'd walk the path to Heaven And bring you home again." Close
2nd anniversary / Tracy Austin (mummy)
Hi mummy's baby boy. This time two years ago baby we were staying at the hospital with you and your twin sister Mollie.You were very poorly,but we thought you would both be fine. Bailey we think of you every single day. We love and miss you so much. Catch the balloons that we send for you today. love you tons.xxxxxxxx Close
someone that cares / Samantha Mcbean (someone that cares )
I just wanted to say that im so sorry to read about what happend to your lil angel.Im especting a lil girl im now 29 weeks and i cant think of losing her.She my world n shes not even in the world yet.Hes in a better place now! Close
Thinking of You Bailey / Lisa Richard Alex And Tia Read >>
Thinking of You Bailey / Lisa Richard Alex And Tia
We can't beleive that You and Mollie are 2. We travelled 135 Miles to Kent to Mollies party and We were so happy to see Her doing so well, She is so beautiful but all the time I was there I couldn't stop thinking of You, What You would look like ? Would You be the same size as Mollie ? Would You have the same eyes as Mollie ? Would You look like Your Mummy or Your Daddy ? You will always be in Our thoughts. Keep watching over Mollie, Protect Her always. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Close
Happy birthday / Tracy Austin (mummy)
Hello my little man,mummy's sorry i havent been here sooner,but its been difficult.
You and Mollie were two last week,wow i cant believe the time has flown so fast.I wonder what you look like every single day,if you and Mollie are alike,if you look like mummy or daddy,Nath or Josh.
We had a party for Mollie last week,we thought of you even more. I wish i could tell you that i love you Bailey,i say it loud and i hope that you hear me.I have to go now,but i promise i will come back next week on your 2nd angelversary.Dont forget to catch the balloons.I love you lots and lots.Love from mummy.xxxx Close
A Poem For Bailey / Emma &. Olivia (Munchkyne(Mumsworld))Read >>
A Poem For Bailey / Emma &. Olivia (Munchkyne(Mumsworld))
It is lonely here without you, I miss you more each day, For life is not the same to me, Since you were called away. If I could have one lifetime wish, One dream that could come true, I would pray to God with all my heart, For yesterday and you.
Always Thinking Of You / Lisa Richard Alex And Tia Read >>
Always Thinking Of You / Lisa Richard Alex And Tia
We are always thinking of You Bailey, Mollie is a Star, Bet You are proud of Her xxxx Keep Her safe and continue to be Her Guardian Angel xxxx RIP Darling Bailey xxxx Close
Another little angel / Sarah Middleton (mummy to another bailey )Read >>
Another little angel / Sarah Middleton (mummy to another bailey )
I had a son called bailey too who passed away in june 2005 from a brain tumour.He was 3 years 11 months old.So young and so unfair for their lives to be taken away from them so quickly.But their in heaven now and we will see them one day when we've completed our time on earth.Our lives will never be the same and everyday is a struggle to cope but everyday that goes by is a day closer to seeing our little boys again.http://bailey-wootton.memory-of.com